8 Things I Love About You

He is the one who taught me to share and love unconditionally.

13 September 2003 was the day we started our lives together.

A month passed and we found out that I am expecting a baby. All of a sudden, a fun boy-girlfriend relationship shifted to a whole life of responsibility. We were unprepared. But we were not scared.

After 9 months, a baby boy was born. Again we were given a challenge after 2 years. Baby boy was diagnosed with Speech Apraxia. Again, unprepared for the battle. But together, we can.

3 years after our first born, we were gifted with another angel. Things are getting better now. New baby. New phase.

Fast forward, 2011. A lot have changed, not only appearances but also attitudes and perspectives. We may have not matured yet, but we have grown. Grown to be better individuals, and better partners. Thankful to the Lord that the battle with Speech Apraxia is over. Thankful that the family is always glued together.

8 years. Eight wonderful years of joy and tears, sickness and health. Eight magical years with you.

This is for you, the man who stood beside me and never let go. Who chose to be my shadow instead of my lead. All my heart is for you, no matter who you are. I care less for the things you cannot give, but my heart is grateful for all that you have given.

J & E back in 2005.

J & J, 2011.

Us in 2006.

I love you for these 8 reasons:

I love you...

...for you never complained how difficult it was to be away from your family only to be with me.
...because you gave up your dreams and plans in life to stay at home and take care of my family and our children.
...because you never left, even if there were times I provoked you to do so when I was mad. You stayed and always kept quiet.
...for you never cheated and remained faithful all these years.
...because you are always respectful and caring of my parents. You know that they are the only family I have. And you never complained about anything about them at all.
...for you are never tired of caring for our children. And I know that no matter what happens, you will never get tired of them. Ever.
...because you gave me 100% trust, that you are never jealous or suspicious of anything I do. Thank you for the gift of trust for it makes us stronger.
...simply because I knew from the start, that no matter what happens, even if I am triple my weight since we first met, you are still giving me the love and care that you first gave me when we started our relationship. Things may have changed through the years, we have gone through a lot of tough times and quarrels, but at the end of the day it all ends simply by you loving me the same way you do everyday.

I am happy to have spent 8 years of my life with you. A lot more will come our way, but I will forever start and end my days with you.

Happy together. US in 2011.

Love,
Joyce :)